Better <bits/c++config.h> detection

Better <bits/c++config.h> detection

Summary:
When worrying about only 2 cpp libraries, detection of "is this libstdc++ or libc++" works, but when throwing in a third option (msvc) this becomes a very brittle way of detecting features.  Also depending on how clang is used it may or may not have this header about

Changed to instead use configuration value for "do we have this header file" for including bits/c++config.h and changed the logic to be identical in all three use cases

Test Plan: fbmake runtests

Reviewed By: njormrod@fb.com

FB internal diff: D1291547