Flesh out Optional members swap, reset, emplace, has_value

Flesh out Optional members swap, reset, emplace, has_value

Summary:
[Folly] Flesh out `Optional` members `swap`, `reset`, `emplace`, `has_value`.

* `swap` as a member and deriving `noexcept`-ness to mimic `std::optional::swap`.
* `reset` v.s. `clear` to mimic `std::optional::reset`.
* `emplace` returning ref and overload taking initializer list to mimic `std::optional::emplace`.
* `has_value` v.s. `hasValue` to mimic `std::optional::has_value`.

Reviewed By: WillerZ

Differential Revision: D6132775

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