Outline `Optional::require_value()`

Outline `Optional::require_value()`

Summary:
We would like to use `folly/Optional` in settings where exceptions
are disabled. An example is ObjC++ codebases where supporting exceptions
doesn't quite help (since objc_msgSend() can throw) and yet we need to pay the
additional binary size cost for the unwind tables.

This patch makes a small change to outline the "assert" utility included
inside Optional.h

Reviewed By: yfeldblum, mzlee

Differential Revision: D5030172

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