Add support for TFO connections

Add support for TFO connections

Summary:
This adds support to establish connections
over TFO.

The API introduced here retains the same
connect() + write() api that clients currently
use.

If enableTFO() is called then the connect will
be deferred to the first write. This only works
with request response protocols since a write
must trigger the connect. There is a tradeoff here
for the simpler API, and we can address this with
other signals such as a short timeout in the future.

Even though the client might enable TFO, the program
might run on machines without TFO support.
There were 2 choices for supporting machines where
TFO might not be enabled:
1. Fallback to normal connect if tfo sendmsg fails
2. Check tfo supported on the machine before using it

Both these have their tradeoffs, however option 1 does
not require us to read from procfs in the common code
path.

Reviewed By: Orvid

Differential Revision: D3327480

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