Make a few adjustments to the compile config for the CMake build

Make a few adjustments to the compile config for the CMake build

Summary: This includes adding options to toggle `/std:c++latest`, and `WIN32_LEAN_AND_MEAN`, along with giving a nice drop-down selector to `MSVC_FAVORED_ARCHITECTURE` when configured via the GUI, dropping `_WINSOCK_DEPRECATED_NO_WARNINGS` as it wasn't needed, and re-enabling warnings 4365 and 4775 within the scope of the standard library.

Reviewed By: yfeldblum

Differential Revision: D5100586

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