fix PicoSpinLock for aarch64 and allow PackedSyncPtr to compile for aarch64

fix PicoSpinLock for aarch64 and allow PackedSyncPtr to compile for aarch64

Summary:
Looks like we never tried to compile or run the PicoSpinLock under aarch64. There were two problems:

if sizeof(IntType) is 64, we try to do
  1 << 63
in lock and unlock. This doesn't compile because sizeof(1) is 32.

Also for try_lock, we were returning the data instead of checking for the locked bit.

Reviewed By: djwatson, yfeldblum

Differential Revision: D5091656

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