Add OpenSSL portability layer

Add OpenSSL portability layer

Summary:
Enable folly to build with OpenSSL alternatives (e.g., BoringSSL).

Some SSL-related tests are disabled:

 - Async session cache ones (BoringSSL has an async cache impl but with a different API)
 - TFO tests
 - Some changes to error tests which expect specific error strings. This is
   flaky as a test because it will break everytime even within a version, so we
   should fix that first.

This should be a noop for OpenSSL 1.0.2.

BoringSSL commit used is 35c8afd3143289c99aa3820e01950c564d7aced8 (10/26/2016)

Closes: https://github.com/facebook/folly/issues/198
Reviewed By: siyengar

Differential Revision: D3280382

fbshipit-source-id: 4141d992e0d8dd797ac4af479cfe90844a23278f