uselistorder: Remove the global bits

uselistorder: Remove the global bits

Remove all the global bits to do with preserving use-list order by
moving the `cl::opt`s to the individual tools that want them.  There's a
minor functionality change to `libLTO`, in that you can't send in
`-preserve-bc-uselistorder=false`, but making that bit settable (if it's
worth doing) should be through explicit LTO API.

As a drive-by fix, I removed some includes of `UseListOrder.h` that were
made unnecessary by recent commits.

git-svn-id: https://llvm.org/svn/llvm-project/llvm/trunk@234973 91177308-0d34-0410-b5e6-96231b3b80d8