Remove <glog/logging.h> from folly/Indestructible.h

Remove <glog/logging.h> from folly/Indestructible.h

Summary:
[Folly] Remove `<glog/logging.h>` from `folly/Indestructible.h`.

This makes the header much lighter. And abort on invalid access (the use-case for `glog`) only in `!defined(NDEBUG)` mode.

Anti-Pattern Combined Mega-Diff Description:
* Add non-`explicit` default ctor.
* Disable ctor explicitly when underlying ctor would fail to compile. Not sure how useful it would be, but it makes type-traits work correctly for whatever that is worth.
* Switch boolean flag to `erased_{false}` so that it is zero-initializable, because that's better.

Reviewed By: ericniebler

Differential Revision: D4380469

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