fix AsyncServerSocket::bind issue

fix AsyncServerSocket::bind issue

Summary:
When closing sockets on retry, we should use `shutdownSocketSet_`
if it is set (so socket will properly be removed from the set).

Also I changed all `::close()` and `::shutdown()` calls to `*NoInt()`
version.

Test Plan:
fbconfig unicorn/test:basic_compression_test && fbmake opt -j32
while _bin/unicorn/test/test:basic_compression_test; do echo DONE; done

Reviewed By: mcduff@fb.com

Subscribers: trunkagent, folly-diffs@, yzhan, yfeldblum

FB internal diff: D1821104

Tasks: 4752579, 6123510

Signature: t1:1821104:1423001050:5bc09ffdd6666c2884ea82dbd70831a56513cfc9

Blame Revision: D1795120