Fix header ordering lint failures

Fix header ordering lint failures

Summary:
Headers whose includes are not sufficient cause problems when included
from other files. An easy way to prevent this is to include the header
first in its associated cpp file. In fact, we have a lint rule for this.
However, there are places where this rule is ignored. This diff fixes
many of them.

Note that a few top-level directories were excluded.

Reviewed By: robbert@fb.com

FB internal diff: D1281032