future_* callbacks in ThreadManager thread

future_* callbacks in ThreadManager thread

Summary:
This is a squashed diff consisting of the following approved diffs

D1714007
D1714645
D1715686
D1719963
D1720725
D1721838
D1721856
D1721920
D1721956
D1724910
D1728289

- execute future_* handlers in TM thread
- call async thrift clients from any thread, not just EB thread
- store a request's EventBase in the RequestContext for easier client management
* this last one will change in favor of using a global IO executor but this should still land as an intermediate step. See D1727894

Test Plan: see component diff test plans. otherwise, contbuild.

Reviewed By: davejwatson@fb.com

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FB internal diff: D1732289

Tasks: 5003045, 5645785

Signature: t1:1732289:1418253508:30b724a91717cf7fe21029e0a1eaf239db1650be