Implementing unique/shared_ptr for custom allocators (like Arena) in folly

Implementing unique/shared_ptr for custom allocators (like Arena) in folly

Summary:
- moving simple allocator *_ptr and convenience functions to folly
- getting rid of arena_new - it encourages manually constructing smart pointers when folly::allocate_* should be used instead
- using std::allocate_shared to construct shared_ptrs, thus properly using the allocator for the ref-counter too
- fixing forwarding of parameters in the convenience functions
- uniform allocation of smart pointers using both stl and non stl-like allocators

Test Plan:
- build + tests of existing client code
- basic unit tests for arena smart pointers

Reviewed By: delong.j@fb.com

FB internal diff: D672818