Short-circuit operator== based on size()

Short-circuit operator== based on size()

Summary:
We don't do this today, but it looks like std::string does. For longer, similar strings, this is a big win.

Before:

```lang=text
============================================================================
./folly/test/FBStringTestBenchmarks.cpp.h       relative  time/iter  iters/s
============================================================================
BM_equality_string(65536)                                    5.13ms   194.87
BM_equality_fbstring(65536)                                 11.34ms    88.18
============================================================================
```

After:

```lang=text
============================================================================
./folly/test/FBStringTestBenchmarks.cpp.h       relative  time/iter  iters/s
============================================================================
BM_equality_string(65536)                                    5.01ms   199.74
BM_equality_fbstring(65536)                                  6.63ms   150.78
============================================================================
```

Test Plan: Benchmark, unit  tests

Reviewed By: tudorb@fb.com

FB internal diff: D737482