Fix a race on destruction of ScopedEventBaseThread

Fix a race on destruction of ScopedEventBaseThread

Summary:
This diff fixes a race that happens on destruction of `ScopedEventBaseThread`.

```
Thread1: ~ScopedEventBaseThread()
Thread1: eb_.terminateLoopSoon() <- preempted just after stop_ = true
Thread2: eb->loopForever() in run(...) exits because stop_ is true
Thread2: ...
Thread2: eb->~EventBase()
Thread1: queue_->putMessage(nullptr) <- accesses destroyed EventBase
```

Reviewed By: yfeldblum

Differential Revision: D5042654

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